Feel a sudden urge to continue to blog.
Lots of things have happen since then…
You may think this blog is filled with cobweb and almost declaring shut down. It’s
just that I could not manage to find time for writing.
Ever since school starting at #Un!5!M
2011 July, I’ve been writing on MSWord but purely for assignment submission.
Now, it is because of a special, extraordinary gift sent from “up there”, that
give me the thought of facing the laptop right now to pin down my thoughts. I
guess it was also a sudden fear of forgetting the various milestones in my life
which leads to my inability to narrate all these to my offspring.
Let’s talk about a dog in the house… who
has been with them since 2012… if Shinji was to talk about his bigger regret in
2012, it was probably seeking his best pal’s assistance in purchasing the dog. Especially
when this pal went personally to check out with the pet shop, asking the shop
owner to “reserve” a few good puppies using his business relationship. Shinji
truly owe him a big favor.
However, the dog wasn’t bought by Shinji.
Why Shinji decided to help the buyer was because of the intention to allow Dad
to be accompanied at home & for the buyer to have a sense of ownership and adopt
responsible attitude. After a year had passed, perhaps it was wrong and didn’t turn
out successful. Attitude didn’t change, duty was shed, couldn’t be bother with
reading and learning the RIGHT way of provide a good and positive home for the
dog.
Shinji regretted his decision. Holding the
dog in his hands feeling pity for the poor dog that wasn’t given the desired
care and concern. Argh… Well Shinji headed for the library to beef up his
knowledge on dog’s behaviour and care. Enriching himself by following a new
idol of his, #Ces@r M!ll@n (http://www.cesarsway.com/).
so that is how he realised that all “care & affection” given by the family
members were mostly incorrect. And now, the dog starts to gain dominance over
them which pose to be difficult to remedy and potential pitfall for any new
family member especially infant.
Can’t bear to see these incorrect actions
to continue, Shinji decided to guide, explain and show them how to handle the
dog correctly. Although now Shinji is somehow seen as a pack leader by the dog,
it’s like a losing battle. Because he is going up against 4 other members. Added
to that, he is going to have his own little family expansion soon. He knew he
has to act fast to gain leader’s status in the dog’s mind. He wont want his
child to be risked been bitten by a curious dog, pushed over by an overly
excited dog, frequently scared by a dog severely lacking in exercise.
Thus, he needs to change his mindset now
and try to influence those key family members in achieving a similar approach
to tame this young pup and teach it how to behave like a balanced, calm and
submissive domestic pet, DOG.
